Cancer Center Reflections

It's been five years since I worked at a cancer center providing care in the area of oncology nutrition. In my five years since leaving, I've often had random and unexpected late night thoughts and memories pop into my head. Apparently my time there left a lasting impression on me. I guess it's not surprising. Many people can't even work in the cancer environment to begin with, much less walk away after eight years of employment without a few things to ponder. 

Here are a few of my cancer center reflections, in no particular order of significance or relevance:

• Everybody is looking for a magic bullet. Some people, especially the poor, uneducated, and elderly, will spend a lot of money trying to find it and a lot of money when they think they've found it.
• Fit people who eat healthy and regulary exercise still get cancer. 
• Your body can hurt in ways your never imagined it could hurt.
• Most people take things like chemo and radiation seriously and keep their treatment appointments. However, some don't. It's surprising how many appointment "no shows" there are, even when life is at stake.
• Family members really want to help. The loss of control and lack of ability to "do" something is extremely hard when someone you love is sick. Food is an area where family members often focus their energy. Often their efforts result in frustration.
• You can't make people eat.  
• Doctors get a bad rap. Sometimes they aren't on their best game. But most of the time they really care and are trying their best.
• Some cancer centers are really fun places to work. Fun in an unlikely place. 
• Sometimes the most random symptoms indicate cancer. (Sometimes the most random symptoms don't.)
• People always underestimate their alcohol, fat, and sugar intake. A good rule of thumb is to always double whatever they tell you.
• People who stay positive in the midst of pain and fear are amazing. And they often truly fair better. The power of positive thinking is real.

Each reflection on my list has a story go with it. If you'd like to hear the story, let me know in the comments below.